9 Phrases Successful People Say Every Day (and You Should, Too)

9 Phrases Successful People Say Every Day (and You Should, Too)9 Phrases Successful People Say Every Day (and You Should, Too)Accomplishments are based on actions, bedrngnis on thoughts- yet the thought is always father to the deed.Achievement starts with an idea, a perspective, a point of view, or even just an attitude.Here are some of the things extraordinarily successful people say every day- and how those statements spur them to take actions that lead to greater success1. No one else is willing to do that...so thats what I will do.Often, the easiest way to be different is to do what other people are unwilling to do.Pick one thing other people wont do. It can be simple. It can be small. Doesnt matter. Whatever it is, do it.Instantly, youll be a little different from the rest of the pack.Then keep going. Every day, think of one thing to do that no one else is willing to do.After a week, youll be uncommon. After a month, youll be special. After a year, youll be incredible...and you definitely wont be like anyone else. (And, in the process, you will develop remarkable mental toughness.)2. Wow. That wasnt so bad after all.The most paralyzing fear is fear of the unknown. (At least it is for me.)Yet nothing ever turns out to be as hard or as scary as we think. Plus, its incredibly exciting to overcome a fear. You get that, I cant believe I just did that rush, a thrill you may not have experienced for a long time.Every day do something a little scary, whether physically or emotionally. (If you need a quick boost of confidence to get you going, here are some really simple tricks to use.)Then, trust that you will figure out how to overcome any problems that arise.Because you will.3. I cant do everything today...but I can take one small step.You have plans. You have goals. You have ideas.Who cares? You have nothing until you actually do something.Every day we let hesitation and uncertainty stop us from acting on our ideas. Pick one plan, one goal, or one idea. And get started. Just take one small step.The first step is by far the hardest. Every successive step will be a lot easier.4. I should just be quiet.I used to talk a lot. I thought I was insightful and clever and witty and, well, a real hoot.Occasionally, very occasionally, I might even have been one of those things.Most of the time I was not.Truly confident people dont feel the need to talk. While I hate when it happens, I still sometimes realize Im not talking because the other person is interested in what I have to say but because Im interested in what I have to say. (Ick.)Never speak just to please yourself. When you do, you please no one. (And, unlike these folks, you wont be particularly likable.)5. I dont care what other people think.Most of the time, we should worry about what other people think- but not if it stands in the way of living the lives we really want to live.If you really want to start a business- which you can do in just a few hours, mind you- but youre worried that pe ople might say youre crazy, do it anyway. Pick one thing you havent tried because youre concerned about what other people think or say, and just go do it.Its your life. Live it your way.6. Ill show you.Im ashamed to admit it, but one of the best ways to motivate me is to insult me- or for me to manufacture a way to feel insulted, regardless of whether Im actually justified in feeling that way or not.Justified is not the point fueling my motivation to do whatever it takes to prove that person wrong, and, more importantly, achieve what I want to achieve is all that matters.Call it artificial competition or manufactured anger call it childish and immature call it creating perceived insults...but it works for me. (Hey, it worked for Michael Jordan.)And it can work for you.7. Its not perfect...and Im OK with that.Yes, you only get one mglichkeit to make a first impression. Yes, perfection is the only acceptable outcome.Unfortunately, no product or service is ever perfect, and no project or initiative is perfectly planned. Work hard, do great work, and let it go. Your customers will tell you what needs to be improved, and that means youll get to make improvements that actually matter to people.You cant accomplish anything until you let go. Do your best, let go...and then trust that youll work hard to overcome any shortcomings.8. I should have done better.Weve all screwed up. We all have things we could have done better. Words. Actions. Omissions. Failing to step up, step in, or be supportive.Successful people dont expect to be perfect, but they do think they can always be better.So think back on your day. Think about what went well. Then think about what didnt go as well as it could have and take ownership. Take responsibility.And promise yourself that tomorrow you will do a lot better.9. Thats OK. Ill just outwork them.Like Jimmy Spithill, skipper of Americas Cup-winning Team Oracle USA, says, Rarely have I seen a situation where doing less than the other guy is a good strategy.You may not be as experienced, as well funded, as well connected, as talented...but you can always out think, out hustle, and out work everyone else. (Or, as I like to say, the extra mile is a vast, unpopulated wasteland.)Even when everything else seems stacked against you, effort and persistence can still be your competitive advantages- and they may be the only advantages you truly need.More From Inc.How to Form Habits That Youll Keep for Life8 Deadly Ways to Kill Employee MotivationHow to Turn Every Failure Into a Measure for SuccessPhoto of speech bubble courtesy of Shutterstock.